Okay, I've gotten the chance to actually read some of this stuff, and as a female I have to say that the meat market philosophy about co-ed anything will always be out there, and folks will always oppose it, or make fun of it. (Obvious for almost anyone who survived junior high school.) For the folks who didn't make it on the list o' desirables, remember that only four ladies compiled the damn thing, whoever they are, and that opinions change. In my personal opinion, I am willing to admit that I would only support their nomination of one of the men on that list, if I had been surveyed as one of those immature girlies. So everyone's taste is different! We all knew this long before this debate over lists. If some of you men out there feel insulted becuase ladies have eyes for muscles and clothing, console yourselves with the personality aspects of being a human male, because ideally compatiblity is usually what ladies look for in the long haul. Last time I checked, smart dolls ended up hitched to smart guys (after the girlies grew up and realized that muscles and fashion aren't the only perks to a fellow to be acknowledged.)It's not like future spouses must be chosen from QB players/members anyhow! The other suggestions I have is that everyone come to tournments after not showering for a week and wear their grossest garbage clothing if looking too attractive is really such a large distraction that it deters one from the true joy of smacking that buzzer. Bev, eternally single and willing to accept it..
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